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We’ve moved! Steve Rothaus’ Gay South Florida is now a section on the new MiamiHerald.com

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September 18, 2014 in AIDS and Health, Arts, Bisexual, Books, Bullying, Business, Census, Crime, Current Affairs, Fashion, Film, Florida, Food and Drink, Fort Lauderdale & Broward County, Gay, Immigration, Key West & Monroe County, Lesbian, LGBT, Marriage, Media, Miami & Miami-Dade County, Miami Beach, Military, Music, Obituary, Palm Beach County, Pets, Politics, Religion, South Florida, Sports, Television, Theater, Transgender, Travel, Web/Tech, Weblogs, Wilton Manors, Workplace, Youth | Permalink | Comments (4)

Law firm Becker & Poliakoff: Anti-gay email from senior attorney Walter Kubitz is 'reprehensible'

On Aug. 25, a senior attorney at South Florida-based Becker & Poliakoff sent an email to practically everyone at the law firm trashing a federal judge's recent ruling that Florida's gay marriage ban is unconstitutional.

Wrote Virginia-based senior attorney Walter Kubitz:

Today’s reckless trashing of morality has been damaging on many fronts. For one, there has been a significant increase in sexually transmitted disease over the past few decades, with the gay plague of AIDS being a classic example.

We would do well to heed the Proverbs 11:21 warning of our ultimate Judge: “Though hand join in hand, the wicked shall not be unpunished.” In other words, popularity does not trump peril.

Homosexuality, clearly condemned throughout Scripture, is especially perilous in that it tends toward the “reprobate mind” as spoken of in Romans 1:18-32 that makes its participants all the more hardened in their ways. The message to the homosexual, as to all, is “Seek ye the LORD while he may be found . . .” (Isaiah 55:6).

Now comes a public response from Becker & Poliakoff, describing Kubitz's email as "reprehensible":

Statement of Becker & Poliakoff

Statement of Becker & Poliakoff regarding the "all attorney" email sent on August 25, 2014

This past Monday, Walter Kubitz, an Intellectual Property attorney in our Northern Virginia office, sent a reprehensible email to all attorneys in the firm. His email was in response to a routine email sharing news about an important legal decision in Florida. 

Mr. Kubitz’ s remarks violated our firm’s email communication policy and our stated core values, which promote inclusion, openness and diversity. Of course, firm employees are entitled to differing opinions on religion and other subjects, however it was inappropriate for him to share such views in the workplace.

Gary Rosen, the firm’s Managing Shareholder and Richard Litman, the Managing Shareholder of the Northern Virginia office, have communicated clearly and directly to Mr. Kubitz that his rogue, disrespectful behavior is unacceptable and will not be tolerated at Becker & Poliakoff. We regret any harm caused by his misguided action. 

September 02, 2014 in Bisexual, Bullying, Business, Current Affairs, Florida, Fort Lauderdale & Broward County, Gay, Key West & Monroe County, Lesbian, LGBT, Marriage, Media, Miami & Miami-Dade County, Miami Beach, Politics, Religion, South Florida, Transgender, Weblogs, Wilton Manors, Workplace, Youth | Permalink | Comments (2)

Viral video | Parents disown, assault 19-year-old gay son when he comes out to them

Posted to YouTube on Wednesday. So far, it's had more than 1.3 million views in about 24 hours:

How not to react when your child tells you that he's gay

A lot of people have asked about donations. A GoFundMe page has been set up to assist with living expenses. http://www.gofundme.com/dnoqgg

A perfect example of how much hate and intolerance still exists today. This family gave a young man two options: attend a pray the gay away intervention, or face being disowned by the very people who are supposed to love him unconditionally.

Disclaimer: This is a 19 year old friend of mine who is currently staying with very supportive friends. He is safe and removed from the situation. I am posting this on his behalf per his request. I was not witness to the events that transpired, but was present immediately after to help him relocate.

August 28, 2014 in Bisexual, Bullying, Business, Current Affairs, Gay, Lesbian, LGBT, Media, Politics, Religion, Transgender, Weblogs, Workplace, Youth | Permalink | Comments (3)

Ugandan court invalidates anti-gay law

BY RODNEY MUHUMUZA
ASSOCIATED PRESS

KAMPALA, Uganda -- A Ugandan court on Friday invalidated an anti-gay bill signed into law earlier this year, saying the measure is illegal because it was passed during a parliamentary session that lacked a quorum.

The panel of five judges on the East African country's Constitutional Court said the speaker of parliament acted illegally when she allowed a vote on the measure despite at least three objections — including from the country's prime minister — over a lack of a quorum when the bill was passed on Dec. 20.

"The speaker was obliged to ensure that there was a quorum," the court said in its ruling. "We come to the conclusion that she acted illegally."

The ruling was made before a courtroom packed with Ugandans opposing or supporting the measure. Activists erupted in loud cheers after the court ruled the law is now "null and void."

The anti-gay measure provided for jail terms of up to life for those convicted of engaging in gay sex. It also allowed lengthy jail terms for those convicted of the offenses of "attempted homosexuality" as well as "promotion of homosexuality."

Frank Mugisha, a Ugandan gay leader, said the ruling Friday was a "step forward" for gay rights even though he was concerned about possible retaliation.

Click here to read more.

August 01, 2014 in Bisexual, Bullying, Business, Crime, Current Affairs, Gay, Lesbian, LGBT, Media, Politics, Religion, Transgender, Weblogs, Workplace, Youth | Permalink | Comments (0)

PFLAG parents project posts ‘A Letter to the World from Debi about Her Trans Kid’ (with video)

From PFLAG’s A Note to My Kid project:

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

A Letter to the World from Debi about Her Trans Kid

We received, via Facebook, a note in the form of a video link, asking us to take a watch and a listen as a woman took on the myths about transgender kids.

We watched and, well needless to say, we were absolutely blown away by this mom, Debi Jackson, whose letter to her transgender child comes in the form of an open speech to a crowd of people, addressing the inaccuracies that she and her family face every day.

Simply put: this is one rockin' mom. Thanks to her transgender daughter, she has become a fierce political activist for LGBT rights and acceptance. She has also recently started a website for parents of transgender and gender nonconforming children: trans-parenting.com.
Most important? She swiftly blows away the stereotypes that the parents and allies of LGBTQ people are a one-size fits all group: same race, same religion, same political beliefs.  No, there is no catch-all. Because every family is different, every parent  is different, and every child is different.

And that's good enough.

July 15, 2014 in Bisexual, Bullying, Business, Current Affairs, Gay, Lesbian, LGBT, Media, Politics, Religion, Transgender, Weblogs, Workplace, Youth | Permalink | Comments (0)

'Just Gender' screening June 25 launches SAVE campaign to update Miami-Dade human-rights ordinance

just_gender6SAVE kicks off its new campaign to add gender identity and expression to Miami-Dade County's human-rights ordinance with a screening of the film, Just Gender.

From the Just Gender website:

The film tackles the all too often misunderstood world of transgender.  Although Just Gender utilizes some archival footage and stills, it is largely built on a series of original footage and interviews of transgendered persons, their family members and friends, health care experts, community leaders and others who work with the transgender community.  The film explores the common myths and misunderstandings about transgendered people.  It also explores the confusion between sexual orientation and gender identity, as reflected in the rigid binary view of the world generally held by society.  Just Gender also touches on the discrimination, hardships and brutality resulting from those misconceptions and prejudices, including the numerous deaths caused by hate each year.

Just Gender, narrated by musical theater star Bebe Neuwirth, will be screened 7 p.m. Wednesday, June 25, at the Colony Theatre, 1040 Lincoln Rd., Miami Beach.

"We'll have Miami-Dade County Mayor Carlos Gimenez in attendance," SAVE Executive Director Tony Lima said.

"From the City of Miami Beach, Vice Mayor Micky Steinberg will be speaking and issuing a special proclamation and Commissioner Michael Grieco will be in attendance," Lima said.

Tickets are $25 and $100 (including a VIP cocktail reception with Just Gender director George Zuber).

Click here to buy tickets or for more information.

June 18, 2014 in Arts, Bisexual, Bullying, Business, Current Affairs, Film, Florida, Gay, Lesbian, LGBT, Media, Miami & Miami-Dade County, Miami Beach, Politics, Religion, South Florida, Transgender, Weblogs, Workplace, Youth | Permalink | Comments (0)

Garland birthday: ‘Night of A Thousand Judys’ to benefit Ali Forney Center for homeless LGBT youth

On what would be Judy Garland’s 92nd birthday Tuesday, New York theater and cabaret publicist Dan Fortune announces he is producing a "Night of A Thousand Judys” art auction benefiting Ali Forney Center for homeless LGBT youth.

This year’s auction accompanies an all-star concert to be held June 16 in Manhattan.

“For the second year, we have asked visual artists from different mediums to create and donate an original interpretation of Judy Garland. The works will be sold via silent auction at the event and all proceeds will go directly to the Ali Forney Center,” Fortune says. The online auction is now live.

More from Fortune:

Participants this year include Robert Risko, the longtime Vanity Fair illustrator, Olympia Zagnoli from The New York Times and Samantha Hahn, creator of Well Read Women, in addition to a custom Judy t-shirt by Deer Dana, whose pieces have been worn by Jay-Z and been featured in Vogue, Fader, Elle and more (www.deerdana.com).

Last year’s auction included custom-made pieces by Tommy Tune, Charles Busch, and Robert W. Richards, in addition to rising talent in the art world.

Participating performers so far include Grammy Award nominated jazz star Jane Monheit, R&B/Disco legend Sarah Dash (LaBelle), “Queer as Folk” star Randy Harrison, Tony Award nominee Rory O’Malley from The Book of Mormon, Broadway leading ladies Sierra Boggess (Phantom of the Opera), Alison Fraser (Gypsy), Julia Murney (Wicked) and Jackie Hoffman (Hairspray), pop singer Karen Wyman, jazz violinist Aaron Weinstein and folk-rock singer/songwriter Erin McKeown, plus a special appearance from Austin Scarlett of “Project Runway.”

In previous years, our sold-out concerts were headlined by performers such as Martha Wash, Carolee Carmello, Justin Vivian Bond, Madeleine Peyroux, Tonya Pinkins, Nellie McKay, Telly Leung, Karen Mason, Bridget Everett, Michael Musto, Jackie Hoffman, Howard McGillin, Jessica Molaskey & John Pizzarelli, Ashley Brown, Daniel Reichard, Karen Akers, Paul Iacono, Daisy Eagan, Frank DeCaro among many others.

Last June’s event raised over $20,000 and we’re trying to double that number for 2014. The 2013 show was called “a rambunctious, uproarious, unpredictable all-star concert” by The Wall Street Journal and 2012’s was praised as “stupendous, extraordinary and hilarious” by The Village Voice.

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June 10, 2014 in Arts, Bisexual, Bullying, Business, Current Affairs, Film, Gay, Lesbian, LGBT, Media, Music, Politics, Religion, Television, Theater, Transgender, Weblogs, Workplace, Youth | Permalink | Comments (0)

Jason Collins featured in 'It Got Better' video

Posted to YouTube, a new "docuseries" from L Studios building on the It Gets Better Project campaign:

At 16, he realized he was different. But it wasn't until 18 years later that he finally found the courage to come out. Meet athlete and role model Jason Collins, a 16-year veteran of the NBA and destroyer of stereotypes.

Featuring: Jason Collins
Directed By: Heather Ross

Executive Producers:
Dan Bucatinsky
Lisa Kudrow
Brian Pines
Dan Savage

June 04, 2014 in Bisexual, Bullying, Business, Current Affairs, Gay, Lesbian, LGBT, Media, Politics, Religion, Transgender, Weblogs, Workplace, Youth | Permalink | Comments (0)

Gay, straight students from throughout Miami-Dade celebrate Springtime Freedom at Homestead High

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BY STEVE ROTHAUS
srothaus@MiamiHerald.com

Jhon Barrera, a junior at Homestead Senior High, describes life at the school before students there began a gay-straight alliance club:

 

"A lot more hidden homophobia," said Barrera, 18, who has been out of the closet since middle school.

"Two years ago there were a few incidents. The typical hate crimes. Derogatory words: 'Faggots.' Throwing it out there and being pretty rude about it," Barrera said. "There were openly gay students who were victimized. A lot of people, including teachers, would try to speak up but didn’t know how to handle it."

Then, Aaron Bos-Lun joined the staff at Homestead High. Not much older than his students, he made the decision to be honest with them about his personal life.

 

"The highest role of a teacher is the personal model they provide," said Bos-Lun, 25. "For pretty much all the gay and lesbian students, I’m the only openly gay teacher they’ve ever known. It’s good for the straight students to see. Any student, anywhere, should see examples of people being proud of who they are. The kids have responded really well to that."

This week, Homestead High's new gay-straight alliance club hosted Springtime Freedom, a speak-out featuring educator and author Erin Gruwell of Los Angeles, whose life became the basis for the 2007 film, Freedom Writers.

 

"About 15 or 20 of my students are gay, lesbian or transgender. I was really blessed that I would say for the majority of my students, I was the first person they came out to. I’ve had my students since they were 14 and they’ve been in my life for the last 20 years," said Gruwell, portrayed in Freedom Writers by two-time Oscar winner Hilary Swank.

"I’ve been blessed to be a part of them discovering themselves, being comfortable with who they are, finding relationships, getting married and actualizing their dreams," Gruwell said of her LGBT students.

Bos-Lun, along with Miami-Dade gay-rights group SAVE, helped raise $10,000 to bring Gruwell to South Florida.

There are about two-dozen GSAs throughout Miami-Dade County, including two middle schools, according to Robert Loupo, executive director of Safe Schools South Florida.

About 400 students, educators and parents filled Homestead High's gymnasium on Wednesday for Springtime Freedom, including teens from gay-straight alliances at Northwestern, Central and Edison high schools.

The Northwestern, Central and Edison GSAs all began this school year.

"This night was a celebration of that collaboration and the foundation to build more GSAs next year," said Bos-Lun, who teaches world literature and reading enrichment.

Odelia Younge and several other Northwestern teachers launched that school's GSA "to show students that the teachers are behind you and we’re going to make it only acceptable to be accepted in our space and classrooms."

"At Northwestern, we have such vibrant students. In order to capitalize on that vibrancy, we need to make it a space all students feel welcome, in a welcome environment," Younge said.

The Northwestern GSA began with about 15 students.

 

"We’re setting that trend for people who are on the fence about revealing their true selves to everyone else," Younge said. "Once we start garnering that kind of support, the GSA is going to take off."

Bos-Lun, who is studying for a master's degree in education and social change at University of Miami, said he didn't come out until his junior year at Wheaton College in Massachusetts.

 

"I certainly wasn’t going to be involved in a [high school] GSA," he said. "I didn’t say a word about being gay until I was 20."

After he began teaching at Homestead, Bos-Lun cautiously began to reveal his sexual orientation to students.

 

"I came out fully by the end of first quarter this year. It shows I have skin in the game. Independent of sexuality, it’s made my classroom a safer space for everyone," he said. "I am a gay man and nothing’s going to change that. Do I hide that from the kids and send a message it's something to be ashamed of? Or do we more on with life by addressing it? There’s power in that that works for anyone."

Soon, several boys and girls came out to Bos-Lun. One student sent him three letters.

"She wrote, 'I’m a lesbian. I've never been able to talk about it. I can’t come to the GSA because my mom won’t allow it. When I heard about what you did, it was the first time in my life anyone has ever stood up for me. I feel safer just knowing there's a GSA and that you’re doing what you’re doing.'"

About 50 students participate in the school's GSA.

 

"It opened up a forum for me to bring up things that I want to talk about. I love gay culture. Obviously, it’s not taught in the curriculum," Jhon Barrera said.

About 15 LGBT students are out at Homestead High, Barrera said.

 

"There aren’t a lot of openly gay kids in our GSA. There are a lot of straight allies. That is something I wasn’t expecting," he said.

Freshman Bertin Balan, 15, joined the GSA with his girlfriend.

"At first, people were telling me, why go? I was like why not go? GSA isn’t just a gay alliance. It’s gay-straight alliance," he said.

Bertin said he immediately connected with other GSA members.

 

"They felt like they were alive and felt like being family. I started to like it a bit more. They were saying everything they say in there stays there. We tell each other secrets," he said. "They would just open up to people and people would cry. We just show love to them and make them like our own family."

Bertin said being a GSA member has helped enrich his relationship with his own brother, who is gay.

"I feel good about myself," Bertin said. "Before, I never used to hang with gay people that much in school or out of school. When I just started to get to know everybody in GSA, I realized everybody is just the same. Under everybody’s skin, our blood is red."

He recommends other straight students join their high school's GSA. "It’s great. You’ll love it. It’s like everybody’s family and you’ll get to know people. You won’t judge people by the way they are."

May 23, 2014 in Arts, Bisexual, Bullying, Business, Current Affairs, Florida, Gay, Lesbian, LGBT, Media, Miami & Miami-Dade County, Miami Beach, Politics, Religion, South Florida, Transgender, Weblogs, Workplace, Youth | Permalink | Comments (1)

Former PTA leader Marilyn Spiegel, longtime champion of LGBT rights, shot to death at age 69

BY BEATRICE DUPUY
BDUPUY@MIAMIHERALD.COM

As a tireless crusader for education, Marilyn Spiegel always had one thing on her mind: students.

Spiegel, a former teacher, who became the leader of the Miami-Dade’s PTA/PTSA in 1998, devoted her life to fighting for children and against violence.

She made countless trips to Tallahassee to lobby for the Jeffrey Johnston Stand Up For All Students Act, which led to tougher anti-bullying policies for public K-12 schools.

For the legislation, Spiegel worked with Equality Florida to provide anti-bullying protections for LGBT students.

Spiegel died Thursday in a family tragedy. She was 69.

Spiegel and her fiancé were fatally shot and her former husband has been charged with first-degree murder.

Her death has left the Miami-Dade County education community shocked and in mourning.

“Marilyn was a fierce advocate,” said Stratton Pollitzer, deputy director of Equality Florida, a human-rights advocacy group. “A lot of young people’s lives are safer and better because of her.”

Spiegel did not stop her efforts at the county line. She wanted to make changes for all children regardless of race, sexuality or socioeconomic status.

During her three years as PTA/PTSA president of the Miami-Dade County Council, Spiegel attempted to change the image of the PTA from bake sales to lobbying and advocacy for children.

Spiegel also voiced her concerns for private school vouchers.

“She believed that every child should receive a fair education and should have everything our students deserve,” said Eileen Segal, Florida PTA President.

Spiegel continued to advocate for students even when her own three children had graduated from public school.

She was the kind of mother who took everyone in, said Kathy Hersh, a friend and colleague.

“She just spread her wings and took people in,” she said.

Spiegel herself has lived through the Florida education system. Before graduating in three years from the University of Florida with honors, she attended South Broward High School in Hollywood.

When Speigel was not working for children, she could be found on her boat. She home-schooled her children aboard the family boat in 1980 for a year.

Tragedy would happen on a boat 34 years later. Speigel and her fiancé, Harry Carlip, 70, were docked on their boat in Fort Myers when police reported that her ex-husband, Michael Spiegel, killed them.

To keep Marilyn Spiegel’s memory alive, the Miami-Dade County Council of PTAs/PTSAs will establish an annual award in her name.

Spiegel is survived by her three sons, Brett, Sean and Dean, along with her three grandchildren and her sister, Susan Homan.

The family requests that donations be made to the PTSA or Equality Florida.

A funeral service will be held at noon Wednesday at Beth David Memorial Gardens/Levitt Weinstein, 3201 NW 72nd Ave. in Hollywood.

May 20, 2014 in Bisexual, Bullying, Business, Current Affairs, Florida, Fort Lauderdale & Broward County, Gay, Lesbian, LGBT, Media, Miami & Miami-Dade County, Miami Beach, Politics, Religion, South Florida, Transgender, Weblogs, Wilton Manors, Workplace, Youth | Permalink | Comments (0)

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