How to avoid your ex online

Breakups are rough. Especially in the age of social media, which require a whole extra level of separation. Enter, which makes the whole process much easier:

Thanks to @Skydiver for pointing this one out!

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How to promote your cause on Twitter and Facebook (without being annoying)

This week's poked column by Niala and I answers a question about how to do fundraising on social networks without being annoying. We also took it a step further with advice on how to promote an event or cause for first timers:

A Poked reader recently posed this question:

I'm training for the NYC Triathlon with a group that raises money for the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society. What is the etiquette on soliciting people through Twitter or even Facebook to get donations? Is there a way, without breaking any major etiquette rules or harassing people, to help with my fundraising?

We like that you're asking, because we often come across people who are shameless marketers/self-promoters.

On Facebook, we suggest using the Causes application, which allows fundraising for any registered 501(c)(3) nonprofits. Send out ONE initial invitation to your Facebook network. For the friends who accept, we wouldn't send more than one message a week; less is better. It's OK the day before the event though, to ramp it up.

On Twitter, we would send out occasional tweets, or posts, to followers about how your training is going. Every now and then, include a link back to a site where they can donate. How often should you send out messages? That's up to you, but don't drown people with donation guilt.

We would suggest spreading it out, a few times a week, at different times. Business hours have the highest traffic. Also, don't forget to send private direct messages to thank those who do donate.

But you can also reach out to new people. Use sites like to find people near to you who might share an interest in your event. For example: search ''marathon'' and ''Miami.'' Another site we use is

If you want to go farther and promote an event, here's how we would do it: First, create a separate account apart from your personal account. That way, it's a clear line of communication between people who want to follow the event versus people who are following you.

By all means, you can and should cross-promote from your personal account about the event. But having one name that's strictly about your philanthropic efforts makes the branding crystal-clear.

After setting up the charity account, make several tweets about the event before you start marketing the account. Make sure its profile is filled out, including a logo.

Then you're ready to let your personal followers in on the other account. (This assumes you already have a personal account with a following. To grow our followers, we try to send out tweets that are funny, interesting, or otherwise add value. In short, good water-cooler conversation that's 140 characters or fewer.)

For inspiration, check out Organizers say the event raised more than $250,000 last month to help provide clean water to developing countries -- marketed globally via Twitter.

Want to tweet but don't want to be a twit? We can help -- send your social networking questions to

Have any other good tips for fundraising on social networks or examples of success? Post a comment and share!

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Have you checked out the new applications on LinkedIn?

Have you had a chance yet to check out LinkedIn's new applications? If so, what do you think of them?

As of last week, LinkedIn users have the ability to add applications to their profiles, similar to Facebook and MySpace.

As per LinkedIn's theme, they're mostly work-related: you can share presentations, documents and your blog feed with your network; view Twitter activity associated with your company; and even publish your travel plans so others can see if you're in another city. So far, there are nine applications to check out.

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